Just a Gwai Lo

Adrianna Tan has 15 tips for straight women who might be considering a switch: “you’re going to run into a certain breed of women you will soon learn to avoid. These are women who were like you some time ago. Straight, attached/married types with an appreciation for the female form. Once they hear of your inclinations, they will assume you want to show them the ropes. (They don’t even ask.) And because no one else is showing interest in you, or you’re flattered by the attention, or both, you may give in. If you really have to, do so quickly, don’t tell them your name and move to the next town the following morning. Hopefully, you will learn you are not the great gay welcome wagon. You don’t have to sleep with them just because you’re the only woman they know who likes chicks too (read: you’re easy). You deserve better.”